Love has no limit.

"It don't take a whole day to recognize sunshine" - Common

They say the end is near its important that we close(another quote). Not only close to the person you lovin' but to all those other people in your life you love. Get close. I feel that I get too close to the females though. I don't want a relationship right now. I mean of course theres one or two girls that I'd talk to no problem but other than those two(or one) I'm single. So when I tell girls this and they say "aight" I'm thinking ok. Then after a couple weeks of talking on the phone and chilling they hit me with the "when we gonna' hook up?" conversation. You already know whats running through my head(do you, I know you do).

I don't really understand what I do to make them think I want a relationship. Maybe I send the wrong signals? Like hugging her daily or talking on the phone with her for an hour or more. I mean its not like I wrote her a four page letter and enclosed it with a kiss, right? For some strange reason they get the impression that I'm feeling them way more than I actually am. Being the nice guy I am(yeah...) I try not to hurt their feelings. But if you like someone and they don't like you back chances are once you find that out you aren't going to dust it off your shoulder just like that. You might just grab a pistol and dust them off instead.

I never really felt the need to just burn it in their mind that I didn't want a relationship. Madd likes to flirt...so what? Its not just that I like to flirt with the ladies, but I mean it doesn't take a whole day to recognize sunshine, but it certainly does take a couple hours. I always talk to them knowing they might catch feelings because I'm trying to see if I might. I mean she just might be the female that I actually fall for...or she might just make my life a living hell. Either way life keeps going on.

Getting close is good, but too close may give people the wrong impression. I think I need to take a step back and take a good look at the signals I send. I plan to get one girl and keep one girl, but being single is too good right now. Recognizing sunshine can wait another day, unless her rays of light hit my sunglasses in a way that just drives me crazy...then I have to wife her. When I do finally find that sunshine it'll be all love and no false signals. Love has no limit, lets spend it slow forever.