I'm still the same.

"Why do niggas say I changed for a girl?" - Common

The age old question...do you put a female before your niggas? Not your niggas, but your friends. People who have been there for you, and you know are down to ride no matter what. Basically people that just don't give a fuck! When it comes down to it you know they got you, and you got them. Not just any female, I mean one that your in a real relationship with. Do you put her before people you've broke bread with?

The situation is simple, you and your boys are about to head out on a Saturday night and chill. But your girl calls you at the last minute and wants to hook up so you two can do your thing. Now any other time a nigga would be like hell yeah why pick chillin' with my peoples when I could be gettin' some ass? But when it comes down to it your dissing your people for a female. But then again your dissing your girl for your people. Which do your choose?

The way I see it both sides have to respect the fact that they are both there. I mean I don't expect my niggas to catch feelings like a girl when I'm tell them Ima'chill with my baby instead of run the streets with them. And I don't want my girl to trip when I want to spend time with my boys. It goes both ways. I don't feel like I'm exactly putting either before eachother. But to be honest in the end Ima' choose my niggas. These are people I've grown up with. People I've known for like 7 years. Niggas I've went through alot of bullshit with, good times and bad times. I can't let a female come in between that, she better get her mind right.

Its never one-sided so when I do put my girl first its because I have real feelings for her and I know she feels the same. Its not like I'm knocking my boys or anything its just the fact that everyone wants to spend time with someone they feel they have a sexual...or natural bond with. So if it gets to the point where niggas say I've changed for a girl. All Ima' say is nigga grow up and get off my sack. I ain't changed for nobody, I just grew up as a person. Do some soul searchin' niggas.