"Tell me what you supposed to do when yourself ain't reliable, You're lookin' in the mirror but yourself ain't desirable, Need another n**** besides yourself on the side of you,Can't listen to yourself, naw, all he do is lie to you" ~ Joe Budden
Now I know my last blog was about R.R.R. and how you gotta cut out the fakes, but I feel I should take some time to look at the other side.
While fakes are never good, it's always good to have atleast one person to hold you down(thats where R.R.R. comes in). If your always by yourself, there will be some point where your gonna need someone else by your side. There is always those times when you don't know where to go or what to do, and if you don't have any one to talk to you will drive yourself crazy. Long stretches of loneliness aren't good for your mental health.
There are alot of times when you will be down and feel like your worthless, but in many circumstances you just need someone to help boost you up. Nothing makes me feel better then someone letting me know they love me when I'm having a hard day/week/month/year. (Yes, year. I've had bad years. Don't ask). When you can't handle yourself anymore you have to have someone else to hold you down.
Don't just be the person that always asks for help too. Those people that you bitch to are gonna need someone to talk to at some point too. So be there for them. Friendships and relationships are mutual, not one sided.
So I reccommend using the three R's and finding atleast one person. Even if it's God.
"Lord please help me through all this self doubt and cowardess, feel like I'm walking in lead welded shoes, held down and powerless" ~ Louis Logic
Peace,
Blue aka 1 Breath
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True, we all need that one person that uplifts us when we're so down we start doubting ourselves. Everyone needs someone to carry them when they're too weak to walk by themselves. But like you said just don't get comfortable in that position. Scratch my back and I'll scratch yours.
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